Here'S A List Of Jennifer Lopez’s Husbands, Fiancés, And Boyfriends
- Jennifer Lopez recently revealed that she was "wary" of getting engaged to Alex Rodriguez because of what she'd gone through in previous relationships.
- That checks out, considering she's been married three times and broken off engagements before.
- J.Lo has been married to Marc Anthony, the father of her twins Max and Emme, Chris Judd, and Ojani Noa.
On March 10th, Jennifer Lopez announced her engagement to former New York Yankees slugger Alex Rodriguez, posting a photo of her ring on Instagram along with a string of heart emojis. Assuming the couple makes it down the aisle, A-Rod is slated to be J.Lo's fourth husband. Despite their "almost too perfect" relationship, she said she was wary of getting engaged again because of her previous marriages.
Here's a look back at J.Lo's relationships—most of which, btw, ended amicably—and what she said she learned from them.
J.Lo is currently engaged to her famous baseball fiancé A-Rod, who she's been dating since late 2016.
"I was very wary after everything I've been through," she recently revealed on an episode of Morning Mash-Up. "I was just sussing it out until then. I was like, 'I don't know, maybe yes, maybe no, I really love [Alex], I like him.' Everything seemed almost too perfect too soon, so I was like, 'Wait, what's happening?'"
But their relationship might just be the rare case when something actually isn't too good to be true. "They have done a really good job of blending their families and making it known that one day they'd be married," a source told ET. "J.Lo and A-Rod are perfect for one another. They push each other to be better in all aspects of their life, and are incredible partners together."
In late 2016, J.Lo was rumored to be dating the "In My Feelings" hitmaker. She denied the rumors on Ellen in February 2017, saying the duo just worked on a song together and that the photos published on Instagram just showed them "hanging out." (Whatever you say, J.)
J.Lo was married to Marc Anthony for seven years, until the couple split in 2011. They have two children together, Maximilian and Emme. Obvs, it ultimately didn't work out, but she told Sunday TODAY that he was always supportive of her career. "While I was married to Marc, he really helped me with my confidence, and he saw where I suffered," she said, adding that Marc often told her she was "a great singer" and encouraged her not to let anyone make her think otherwise.
J.Lo and actor Ben Affleck hit it off on the set of Gigli in 2002, and the pair became engaged less than a year later. The couple affectionately called "Bennifer" called off the wedding in 2004. Still, Ben told The Hollywood Reporter in 2012 that they still keep in touch. "We don't have the kind of relationship where she relies on me for advice," he said. "But we do have the kind of relationship where there'll be an e-mail saying, 'Oh, your movie looks great.' I remember when she got American Idol. I said: 'This was really smart. Good luck.'"
J.Lo's second husband was dancer and choreographer Cris Judd, to whom she was married for just nine months from 2001 to 2002. They met on the set of her music video, "Love Don't Cost a Thing," which Judd directed. It was love at first sight... for him, at least. "So, when Jennifer walks in, I shake her hand and we kinda look at each other—and in my head, I’m like, 'Oh my God, I’m going to marry this woman,'" Judd told Oprah on an episode of "Where Are They Now?" Ultimately, stress from the paparazzi strained their relationship.
Jenny from the Block dated fellow music artist Puffy Daddy/Sean John Combs (now known as Diddy) from 1999 to 2001. They began dating around the release of J.Lo's debut album On The 6 and–get this—once got arrested together. Their relationship was reportedly turbulent and full of infidelity, which eventually led to their breakup. "I was in this relationship with Puff where I was totally crying, crazy and going nuts, it really took my whole life in a tailspin," J.Lo told Vibe in 2003. "I never caught him [cheating] but I just knew. He’d say he was going to a club for a couple of hours and then never come back that night." Ouch.
J.Lo connected with her first husband, Ojani Noa, an aspiring performer, when he was a waiter at a Miami restaurant in the late '90s. Not much is known about their relationship since they divorced in January 1998 after 11 months of marriage.