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Personality Test: What You See First Will Reveal What Happens To You In Love

What could be happening to you?  Look at the image and answer what you see first to know what could be the background of your problems in love. 

Talking about the happiest of love and showing it to the world does not seem to be difficult at all. But …  what happens when there are problems?Love is more complex than what they show us in advertisements or in social media publications. Sometimes it is not enough that two people love each other (in the case of a couple), or that they are of the same blood (in the case of a family, for example), or that they share the same interests (in the case of friends). ). 

But to assume that we live problems in love is not easy either. In fact, there are people who can not even get out of denial. What we feel inside, anyway, and however much we want to hide it, is there, remains … 

The tests serve as a kick to make emerge those things that we do not encourage to say or to assume. Desires, fears, insecurities … emotions that live in our unconscious.

It is a projective exercise: it is easier for us to place in the image things that we could not easily recognize in ourselves.Observe the following image and without thinking answer: what do you see first? What you answer may help you bring to light what might be hiding your problems in love.


If the first thing you saw in the image was the rodent, then possibly your problems in love are linked to what you feel in relation to your environment. In the background, are you afraid of being accepted? Do you think you would not like to stay alone? Do you feel a deep desire to be loved, taken into account? 

Maybe there is something inside you that generates insecurity and makes you act unconsciously in that way. You may then be jealous, dependent, or on the contrary, defensive. You feel fear of being hurt, of being rejected, and that may be playing against you when it comes to relating in love.

It is important that you work this on yourself so that you can bond with others from a more healthy and loving place that has its origin, first and above all things, in your love and acceptance towards you.

The profile silhouette of a person

If the first thing you noticed about the image was the person in profile, its outline, then perhaps your problems in love may be revealing an issue with your ego that you have to work on. 

Putting the ego always ahead can lead to many conflicts: being defensive, victimizing, not accepting criticism, taking everything personally, paralyzed by fear, infatuated, etc. The opposite of the ego is love, acceptance. Working self-love may help you to run away from the ego to be able to relate to others from your heart, from the most genuine.

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