How To Bite His Body For Hotter Sex
If you want to instantly add a kinky-lite twist to a sack sesh, get all Cullen on his bod. “Biting is a way to express one’s passion and aggression in a playful, uninhibited way,” says Jane Greer, Ph.D., New York-based marriage and sex therapist and author of What About Me? Stop Selfishness from Ruining Your Relationship. “It’s a way of saying how much you desire your partner—you’re literally eating him up.” We like the way you think, doc.
Start off by incorporating a few slow, soft bites into a hookup, to get him comfortable with the idea of using teeth as a sex toy. “It’s best to go for it in a gentle way so that he experiences biting as positive and playful,” says Greer. “Then, if you’d like to be more aggressive, ask him if he's okay with you biting harder next time” Biting consent is super-important, people.
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Another thing to keep in mind: When you’re heading towards a sensitive zone like his nipples or family jewels, graze delicately with the tips of your teeth, rather than chomping down (ouch!). You'll want to use your teeth as a way to channel your desire, not freak him out, she says.
On the other hand, if you’re the one craving a little tooth action (go, girl!), there are a couple of different things you can do to get the message across, says Greer. You can be direct and tell him you love the feeling of tender biting, or you can show him what you enjoy by doing it to him, she says. If you choose option b, you can get the hint across by asking him how it feels, and then telling him you’d love it if he could try it on you.
Just keep in mind that there are no right or wrong ways to pull off a sexy new move, says Greer. The key is to be tuned in to your partner and your body to find out what's best—what works for one couple may not work for another. Got it? Good.
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Now, sink your teeth into the following tips:
Tap into Your Inner Vampire
In the missionary position, kiss and nibble up and down your guy’s neck and back. “The neck has a lot of sensitive nerve endings,” says Greer. Using your teeth in this vulnerable area can feel almost dangerous.
At the same time, interspersing your nips with romantic smooches lends the action a sexy rough-and-soft vibe. “Adding kisses can make it even more exciting by contributing to a buildup of sensation.” While you should ultimately let instinct guide you, your kissing and biting might get increasingly feverish in tandem with your level of arousal as you approach orgasm.
Use Your Grill on His Groin
During oral sex, try slowly biting down on his body until you reach his genitals—this heightens his anticipation as you get closer and closer to the Southern border. Along the way, let your mouth linger on any part of his body that you find particularly sexy.
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Once you reach his below-the-belt territory, it’s up to the two of you whether or not you want to continue using your chompers, or switch to lips and tongue. “If you do bite his genitals, be very light,” says Greer.
Give Him a Love Bite
Side-by-side sex is one of the most soulful positions, since you’re eye-to-eye with your bodies perfectly in sync. Incorporating a risqué sensation like biting can add a wickedly hot element to an intimate sexperience. Greer suggests gently nipping under and along the sides of your partner’s arms. “Sometimes it will tickle, but other people find it very exciting,” she says.