Perfect Things To Talk About With Your Boyfriend
Firstly, there’s something you need to remember. Silence is not a bad thing. Don’t feel awkward or shuffle your toes when both of you aren’t talking. Just take a few calm, deep breaths and relax.
At times, silence can be a perfect thing to help both of you fall more in love with each other. After all, silence in a conversation is the best sign to show that both of you feel really comfortable with each other and don’t need a constant barrage of words to feel at ease in each other’s company.
Initially, it may be hard to avoid feeling uncomfortable when there’s silence because of the constant eagerness to prove that you’re great company. The awkwardness could also be accentuated because of the sexual tension. But over time, you’ll learn to feel relaxed around each other.
But for starters, use these tips given below while spending time with your boyfriend. By using these 6 tips, you can have better conversations with your boyfriend, get along better with him and make him realize how smart you are, all at once.
1 Questions to get to know him. At times, as corny as a list of questions may sound, they can be your perfect solution to a dry spell of conversations. Even if both of you have emailed each other the answers, you can remember a few of his shocking or hilarious answers and talk about it when both of you meet each other. It’ll reveal a lot of details and bring both of you really close in just one conversation.
2 Current affairs. Random bits of gossip and news are always great things to talk about. Have you been watching the news lately? Or perhaps, some celebrity dirt that both of you are interested about? There’s always something interesting to talk about when it comes to things happening around the world.
Talking about current news that interest you can help both of you get to know each other’s likes and dislikes better. And at the same time, it can lead to intellectual debates or expressions that can make your boyfriend realize how smart you are.
3 Ask for advice. Guys just love giving advice to people. They always think they have the answers to everything. If you want to bond better with your new boyfriend, ask him for some help, be it about your work life or an issue that’s more personal. He’ll appreciate you a lot more because he’ll feel more dependable and better about himself.
4 Talk about his day. At the beginning of a new relationship, everything’s new and fascinating because both of you are trying to know more about each other’s lives. The best way to get to know him better is by talking about his day, every day. When both of you know about each other’s lives, you’ll feel more connected to each other. And one conversation will usually end up leading to many other conversations.
5 His passion and hobbies. Does your boyfriend have any hobbies or passions that he likes to pursue when he’s got time to spare? Find out about them and seem genuinely interested in knowing more about it. When your boyfriend sees that you’re interested in his passions, he’ll be more excited to spend time with you and talk to you. [Read: 8 things to say to a guy to make him like you]
6 His ambitions. What are his dreams and what does he want to do in life? Guys love talking about their dreams. Ask him about his dreams, and give your suggestions and pointers on how he can achieve it.