10 Key Things To Know Before Dating A Virgo
1. They try to impress everyone
When a Virgo falls in love, there’s basically no need to state it, as everyone can notice it from a mile away just fine. Making it quite clear that he loves is not really the motive behind it all, but rather the desire to impress and dazzle that special someone.
It doesn’t really matter how and what they do, all that matters is the end result. Mostly, it all comes down to what the other person is interested in.
That’s what a Virgo will most probably have as a guiding principle. If it works, great, you now have an individual who will stop at nothing to make you happy and comfortable, literally nothing.
They basically live through others’ happiness, mostly the intimate partner’s.
2. They have high standards
Known for how efficient they are at life, Virgo natives truly manage to harmonize everything, anytime and anyplace.
With a strict attitude and an even stricter set of expectances, you won’t happen to see one of them being content with a lowly position or an unworthy partner.
Instead, the same high standards that drive them to such lofty ideals, will also work wonders on you as well.
It’s a Virgo’s deep desire to make you rise and become superior to your former self.
3. They will stand by you
Generally, everyone on a 100-meter radius around a Virgo will feel the benefits of that pretty quickly, as their life begins to change for the better.
Nothing acts as a motivator more than having a person standing right beside you, instructing, helping and supporting you at every step.
And there are no strings attached. Really, the only reason for what they do is simply because that’s how they are and it’s only natural.
Perfectionism can be both a bless and a curse, but it’s mostly something that keeps one in top shape and in a constant state of self-development.
To Virgos, it goes a little more than that, but not going over the limit. For example, they absolutely hate it when someone steps in and messes with their life, renovating or changing the homely environment. Things were perfect as they were, why change that?
Just like a Leo does things, Virgo natives are pretty determined when it comes to something they had long planned for.
Even more so for their dreams and future prospects. There is no arguing or altering their choice, so it’s better to give up while you still can.
4. Their curiosity knows no boundaries
With an endless thirst for knowledge and a knack for finding out about the unknown and the most intricate aspects of existence, Virgo natives are naturally great talkers.
After all, how could they satisfy those cravings of theirs if not through discussion? They like to have debates and long talks about pretty much anything that you could think about, from music, painting, astrophysics and the reason why wolves don’t bark. It’s really nothing that can’t, at one time, enter their field of interest.
And even if that is the case, the simple fact of gaining more knowledge and becoming better than before is a purpose in and of itself. And the Virgos are all about that.
They are great talkers because, beyond that endless curiosity, they’re also quite versatile and good at making you feel good with your role of a knowledge recipient. Compliments, jokes, puns, everything goes as long as they get what they want.
5. They hate superficiality
Nothing keeps a Virgo woman away more than you resorting to mere playfulness and tedious childishness, when that is clearly not necessary.
They tend to take it as a personal affront when someone goes that way, a form of superficiality and disrespect towards them.
Endowed with a tendency to try and help people, even against their will if need be, they are really just doing it out of kindness and generosity, no ill purpose or catch is involved.
A pure, unadulterated and innocent wish to see and make everyone happy, that’s what a Virgo is all about.
6. They can be easily offended
Something they completely despise and are abhorred by, is the lack of punctuality of some people, of most people.
They could be right though. If you know you have something to do that day and are unable to make it to the meeting, or are generally someone who arrives late, do tell that. It’s no harm, on the contrary, it will at least prevent the other from losing time on waiting for you.
Impulsivity is yet another thing that they are not much attracted to, since they tend to pay attention to details most of the time before committing to something.
Instead of jumping heads forward into the thick of things, a Virgo prefers to not only analyze the situation carefully, but also construct different scenarios or deduce the possible consequences that could appear.
7. They are perfectionistic
Perfectionism is a Virgo’s bane in this life. There are literally not many things to a Virgo that could displease or irritate others. But perfectionism, that’s another thing altogether.
Once taken to an extreme, it becomes quite a problem, both for the person in question, as well as for others.
Besides the common obsessive-compulsive behavior that some perfectionists exhibit, and which a Virgo may as well, there is the search for perfection in everything they do.
School, job, impressions made on other people, and even fun activities turned into competitions, are all possible targets for them.
Everything has to be top-notch, with no flaws at all, and no imperfections. That is why they waste a lot of time on checking if things are exactly as they should be before setting them into motion.
While perfectionism acts as an impetus, a channeling of their intellectual powers into a certain direction, it also has potential disadvantages, as we can clearly see.
8. They can’t really let loose and go with the flow
A Virgo needs to have a plan for everything, no exceptions. Especially on going out with friends and family, they have to be in total control and fully knowing what will happen, when it will happen, and how everything falls in place.
Every detail counts, and a Virgo native is dead without the details. Without a plan in mind, they don’t engage in anything, because they don’t know what to expect and how to react to spontaneous invitations.
Also, they are great at fixing life for you. Got issues and can’t seem to get around them? Your Virgo friend is there for you and can’t wait anymore to get to your place, analyze the situation and systematically crumble it down to the barest possible level, after which the solving part takes place.
9. They keep to themselves
Albeit very open to other people’s problems and very helpful and generous, their own problems are generally kept under the radar.
They don’t like to let others bear their burdens or share their lives unless necessary. In intimate relationships, the initiative should always be taken by the partner, after which a confession is in tow, a pretty deep and complex one at that.
Very ingenious and unique when it comes to showing their love, Virgo natives are, most of the time, misunderstood or not understood at all.
The ways in which they express themselves are diverse and quite special, so attention is paramount.
10. They will debate you
Putting aside their high-stakes perfectionism that makes them over-analyze things and pay utmost attention to everything around them, there is also the sensitivity characteristic to a Virgo that makes them unique.
They are able to remember even the most insignificant of things you said, and they are also very affected by them as well. So it’s a very good idea to watch your words next time around.