“In Order For Your Kids To Be Happy, They Must See You Happy.” An Interview With A Fit Single Dad!
As busy parents, we often tell ourselves “we don’t have time”.
We neglect OUR needs and put our kids needs first.
It isn’t selfish to take care of YOURSELF. It’s essential.
Here is another interview with a fit dad!
Please meet Todd, a single dad with 2 kids. Todd hasn’t always been in shape or into fitness. Find out how he gets it done!
Q: Have you always been fit? What inspired you to live a fit lifestyle?
A: I was athletic growing up but once I graduated from college, I
focused more on my career and less on exercising. When I turned 40 a
few years ago, I decided that I need to focus more on myself. I also
realized that I would have to be dating again soon because of a
divorce, so in order for me to find what I was looking for, I would
have to lose weight, change who I was and become healthier.
Q: What advice do you have for dads who claim they don’t have time for exercise?
A: Build a plan… For the first 3 months I started slow with a simple
activity of walking every morning at 5AM. On the next three months, I
added a boot camp to my weekend workout. The following three
months, I was actively working out 3-5 days a week doing a boot camp.
Having a plan kept me from losing my interest. It was important for
me to map out the first year.
Q: How have your workouts changed since having kids?
A: Working out when you have kids around can be challenging and
creates a great excuse. But keep in mind, in order for your kids to
be happy, they must see you happy. The only way that I could care for
my kids is that I would have to care for myself first. There are a
lot of great family activities like, walking, biking, hiking, etc.
Q: What is your least favorite exercise?
A: Running but my goal this year is to run a 5k. This needs to
become part of my weekly workouts.
Q: Do you have any mental tricks that you use when you just don’t feel
like working out?
A: Every day between 530PM to 630PM is my time. I make sure that
it’s on my calendar and I tell the kids, family and friends that I
can’t be reached during that time nor will I change my plans. I plan
my work out for the week and this allows me to stay focused and
excited for my upcoming activities.
Q: Random question: what is your go-to snack food?
And who doesn’t love a good beer with their pizza, right?
Thanks for being an inspiration Todd! He doesn’t mention it, but he started doing Crossfit competitions in January and did awesome! Fist bumps to all the fit moms and dads out there!